Love...what is it to you?

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Sept 16, 2013 14:15:40 GMT -6 @matelsie said:

Would it be possible the amplified motherhood is in fact a misskied little girl?

odd choice of words martine...you don't think I am mskied do you???

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No, I don't believe you're mskied or rather more exactly, I don't care. I don't ask myself these kind of questions.

It was more like when we have a dream and feel some understanding about our life into. I was just trying to verify if you could have had the same feeling than me.

Don't worry if you don't understand.

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oh....thanks for explaining

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Love fills my being at the moment...

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What can i say.....I'm just a lover and have no shame...there is plenty more to me...but love is just who I am....I don't want to be like others for then I wouldn't be me...

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I'm a lover too. I so prefer being in love with what I do. Passionate in life, it is a must. It fills our heart with love. lol *circular*

When we love what we are doing and who we are with, we love our life.

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Yes true

and unconditional love is a must..I am not here to change anyone, just share thoughts...I know I speak of God lot's but not always in the vein that people think...they really need to read between the lines...sometimes, God is love, sometimes intuition, sometimes conscience, sometimes energy...

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Maybe unconditional love is a must. Maybe. Yet, I feel more disconnected, earthly speaking, when I'm with this feeling.

Connected, it wouldn't be true if I said that I love everything. Though, I try to keep in my life the parts I love the most so I can hope to have unconditional love... most of the time.

I'm still between ascending/descending path. Not so conflictual though.

I do agree with you with your God's definition. IT's so beautiful with a larger sense.

I just want to use this adorable emoticon that I saw you using earlier. May I?

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Well unconditional love can have many definitions and each situation or person it is applied to are different...sort of like different levels of love...if that makes any sense...

You spoke of wise choices..I have made all the right choices and know what I have been through over the past several years...why I always say I know I'm where I'm meant...and know what I am meant to do....people can make fun of that all they want, I am not shaken by it...they dont break my spirit at all...as a matter of fact, just makes me stronger...

Umm I like that emoticon *hug* and I would give you one back, but I am on a mobile device right now so...kisses!!!

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You made all the right choices? I would say that you're really unique in this case.

In my opinion, it's difficult to say we make the right choices all the time. We can hope that we make the decisions with the best considerations when we are doing it, yet it's probably not the case at multiple occasions. But they are again decisions coming from our own viewpoint.

Just the earlier example. You said me: odd choice of words. When I chose these words, they were referring to an idea I had. They were polite etc. so I could believe they were the right words. But like I'm not alone, I have also to be preoccupied by others. If I want to be understood, I have to do it. Does it make sense for you?

So, how can we be sure to make the right decisions all the time?

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It's possible the commentaries made are right. It seems it is important to listen the impact of what we are doing on others. We are sharing this world so what "they" are thinking about our actions seems accurate. They are speaking of an aspect of ourself. We are not obliged to accept everything of the commentaries as true but many are helping.

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err I was talking in my personal life...of course I have made many errors of judgment in other areas...sorry, should have explained a lil better

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When making decisions in your life only you can decide if they are right or wrong. Now that being said is a wrong decision really wrong? It's more like a right decision to teach you something you needed to kno

*shrugs* maybe I'm right maybe I'm wrong. Either way reason exists

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blackswan, what do you mean by your personal life? When you are involved, it's personal. But I guess there is few thinks in your life that you are the only one involved by your decision's consequences.

shadowmaker, it must be rare that someone think something is wrong and decide to make it anyway. We see it after the fact. And you're right, that a wrong decision has also positive in it.

I believe it has something to do with the level of love blackswan spoke lately. You surely had experiences in your life as I had myself of very egoist people vs very compassionate ones. At the end of the day, we can find positive in everything but there is more positive in certain ways than in others.

It's an easy way to not take our individual responsibilities to say that even wrong, it was for a good reason. I see it a good way to not over judge ourselves with exaggerate condemnation for the past but not to forget our responsibility and change things for the future.

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If someone thinks they did something wrong it's usually a doubt AFTER the decision is made. Of course that's pending on the mindset, and the situation. many things play into that.

depression lies and rejection can cause the over judging of oneself. Exaggeration is open to interpretation based off others judging and the one speaking their point of view.

I'd say more, but my work is on the table.