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Apr 27, 2016 15:52:34 GMT -6
Post by Deleted on Apr 27, 2016 15:52:34 GMT -6
Well I am not sure what you mean by abuse...Artists singing "abusive" lyrics or Artists "expressing" abuse through lyrics...if you follow me...there is a difference...does that make any sense???
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Apr 27, 2016 16:04:19 GMT -6
Post by Deleted on Apr 27, 2016 16:04:19 GMT -6
Speaking of abuse...yesterday, I left a video in response to Mskieds video in the sex thread...was just joking with him, but it was sort of disturbing and not everyone has the same sense of humor I do...did not want to offend him (not my intent), so I felt it necessary to remove said video...SORRY mskied ♥
While on this subject...I feel music, art, literature, cinema...can sometimes "graphically" depict to, express an emotion...I guess that is why I look deeper into meanings of expressions in art and don't get offended very easily...but I realize not everyone sees things that way...
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Apr 27, 2016 17:14:59 GMT -6
Post by shadowmaker on Apr 27, 2016 17:14:59 GMT -6
Mind fuckery is also abuse. Not entirely sure what this thread is about with video posts.
This place has its bullshit moments of such
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Apr 27, 2016 17:42:28 GMT -6
Post by shadowmaker on Apr 27, 2016 17:42:28 GMT -6
Careful you may burn something. But maybe that doesn't matter.
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Apr 27, 2016 18:35:14 GMT -6
Post by shadowmaker on Apr 27, 2016 18:35:14 GMT -6
Simple understanding doesn't exist when people lack the experience. So keep doing what you do.
I really don't need or want the fuckery. That's not how you handle people with ptsd.
Too many times smh
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Apr 27, 2016 18:43:40 GMT -6
Post by shadowmaker on Apr 27, 2016 18:43:40 GMT -6
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Apr 27, 2016 18:47:54 GMT -6
Post by shadowmaker on Apr 27, 2016 18:47:54 GMT -6
Taking from another is also a form of abuse.
And you know, that leads to cautioned discussions due to such happening.
That is a thief being a mental abuser.
That itself causes ptsd too.
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Apr 28, 2016 15:04:09 GMT -6
Post by Deleted on Apr 28, 2016 15:04:09 GMT -6
Well I am not sure what you mean by abuse...Artists singing "abusive" lyrics or Artists "expressing" abuse through lyrics...if you follow me...there is a difference...does that make any sense??? you are totally right with what you've said. I've noticed that myself while posting all these songs... so thank you for speaking up! I appreaciate that very much, for there is a HUGE difference between being abusive (in lyrics) and being abused (and expressing it)... it's a very sensitive topic, actually.... I think it's important to face abuse from both/all sides... to expose what it truely is: damaging... (its nature) my love goes out with everyone who actually dares to speak about it... no matter from which side, as long as the intention behind it is clear: to make aware of its existence (prior condition: artist must be aware!)... for it's part of our daily life, if we may notice it or not... and it's the core of capitalism... if we think of abuse as exploitation... body, mind, soul... we can get abused in different ways on different levels... and abuse others, on purpose or unintended... but it happens everyday around us... I fear, I'm better in embracing than discussing wounds and scars, blackswan... and I see wounds and scars everywhere... even in those, who abuse... <3 we live in a world of chaos... |
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Apr 28, 2016 15:23:24 GMT -6
Post by Deleted on Apr 28, 2016 15:23:24 GMT -6
we live in a world of chaos... absolutely. swimming and swimming all the time... and fighting not to drown... and most of the time nobody around who puts an arm around you, holding you tight and saying... hey man, it's ok... it's gonna be alright... would help sometimes, wouldn't it? It's a real challenge to grow warmer everyday instead of giving in the cold... whatever, blackswan, your reply has consoled me somehow... Thank you <3 I am glad you understood my intent ♥ I was just trying to convey (out loud) what you pointed out...how you see scars all around you everywhere...made me think of all the chaos in the world... It was meant in the most sympathetic way... |
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Apr 28, 2016 15:41:38 GMT -6
Post by Deleted on Apr 28, 2016 15:41:38 GMT -6
It's a real challenge to grow warmer everyday instead of giving in the cold... whatever, blackswan, your reply has consoled me somehow... Thank you <3 Yes I understand it is a challenge...but YOU are the stronger one...YOU are not swimming alone ♥ I can say, You haven't been either...I've been pulling for you for many years, by your side..even if you did not know ♥ |
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Apr 29, 2016 9:21:23 GMT -6
Post by shadowmaker on Apr 29, 2016 9:21:23 GMT -6
Growing warmer is ideal, but there are times that the cold shoulder must be given, especially when you get a bad vibe from someone in person.
Trust your gut instinct.
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Apr 30, 2016 10:18:05 GMT -6
Post by shadowmaker on Apr 30, 2016 10:18:05 GMT -6
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Apr 30, 2016 10:28:50 GMT -6
Post by shadowmaker on Apr 30, 2016 10:28:50 GMT -6
Growing warmer is ideal, but there are times that the cold shoulder must be given, especially when you get a bad vibe from someone in person. Trust your gut instinct. Why should I grow colder because the world is so cold? I'd rather rebel against anything cold than acting cold. No eye for an eye. No tooth for a tooth. Fuck those bastards, if I they make me act cold, they have truely won. I refuse! I want to be me. Free and embracing (again). I don't know if it's clever or wise... and if it's achievable, but at least I must try... As if the fighting keeps me alive... and warm... and human. And it's hard to stay human after all I have been through... but I don't give up on me! Me is all I have... every single day. And I want to be my best friend. Love you, shadowmaker. And thank you for caring. I appreciate that very much. <3 So be nice to a someone who is creepy? No thanks. I'd rather not. That's something I'm dealing with daily at work. I've spoken to a mental health adviser who shops at my work and a psychology major regarding this situation and they said I need to be very careful leaving work. Sometimes being nice gives a guy the wrong impression and he persists to only talk to me in out of everyone who works there. Observing the constant attempts to engage with me while I'm busy or talking to someone else and he just stand there and has nothing to say until the other person leaves is a red flag. Also by doing that, the other person also was creeped out and said "what the fuck was that?" Also about as old as my father. Creepy. |
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Apr 4, 2017 17:05:46 GMT -6
Post by Deleted on Apr 4, 2017 17:05:46 GMT -6
If anyone actually watches this, his description is pretty much what I experienced.
Noe, yes it has been a few years since that garbage happened in my life, but it is still nice to be educated and informed what red flags to watch out for.
Yes, the experience does in fact fuck you up mentally and emotionally for a while.
It takes time to recover.
And it has definitely taken me quite some time.
I have spoken to many people about this through the years and very few seem to comprehend it.
I would not have known about this guy's youtube channel if it weren from a past friend. I already thanked the friend a while back.
Would've been nice to see these during the whole situation to end it much faster. At least now I am aware.
So, pardon me sometimes, I do have a wall and boundaries. Because sometimes you all show some red flags with your posts
Sorry, but not sorry. It is what it is.
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Apr 4, 2017 17:07:35 GMT -6
Post by Deleted on Apr 4, 2017 17:07:35 GMT -6
Oh and the red flags once in a while are exactly why I say hopefully he isn't posting and lurking here.
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