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Post by Deleted on Feb 4, 2017 17:11:10 GMT -6
One chooses her battles?  |
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Post by Deleted on Feb 5, 2017 10:58:16 GMT -6
And some battles are not chosen, but forced #justsayin #eyeobservetoo
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Post by Deleted on Feb 6, 2017 8:07:10 GMT -6
And some battles are not chosen, but forced #justsayin #eyeobservetoo
#eyeobservetoo No doubt.
Forced? Probably, we could have long conversation about that.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 6, 2017 8:42:30 GMT -6
We could, but nah. It's real life relations discussions. Not for a forum of semblance.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 7, 2017 20:14:14 GMT -6
Feel so good. 
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Post by Deleted on Feb 8, 2017 8:16:59 GMT -6
No matter the place, it's ourselves that we meet there.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 9, 2017 9:29:55 GMT -6
At the end of the day & the end of life. You got you!  gotta love yourself or you might be fucked |
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Post by Deleted on Feb 10, 2017 10:12:33 GMT -6
No matter the place, it's ourselves that we meet there. This is true... |
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Post by Sunia on Feb 12, 2017 8:16:06 GMT -6
I love to feel listened and to feel we're friends. Be a guest on our roads as well, Sunia... <3 With noble feelings, yes. I care to cultivate sincerity and loyalty. |
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Post by Blixa B. on Feb 12, 2017 9:17:33 GMT -6
No matter the place, it's ourselves that we meet there. |
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Post by Blixa B. on Feb 12, 2017 16:44:23 GMT -6
Be a guest on our roads as well, Sunia... <3 With noble feelings, yes. I care to cultivate sincerity and loyalty. Sunia, may I ask, if you come from/have a Christian background? I associate the term "noble feelings" with virtues and virtuousness which are considered to be high ideals in Christianity. I'm rather a Buddhist, if anything at all. I practice compassion and detachement. And I make a difference between morality (good heart / bad heart) and humanity (a heart is a heart). To me, you don't have to prove anything noble to be my friend, nor does blackswan or a-shit-ma LOL (love that ironic wordplay of yours, ashima) ;-) I may not always understand what's going on in here, but it's not my business to make sense of it all, is it? Instead I appreaciate the different colors you all radiate in, and none of us radiates in only one true color... which I appreaciate most. Holi, Holi, shadowlads. |
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Post by Sunia on Feb 12, 2017 19:27:17 GMT -6
I appreciate a lot Pema Chodron. I find so inspiring THAT calm and THAT connection to everyday life. We feel her saying, it's OK, it will be fine. I can't find another better word than calming.
I have a Christian background yet I find connection in other spiritual paths. This video was really well chosen for the moment. Thank you. In fact, the noble feelings is more, first, for me than for you with no offense. I mean I'm tired rolling me in the mud. I became conscious lately that I liked this kind of interactions before, not only here for sure. We're never really far from here to there.  I had the feeling to be alive fighting for ideas, projects, everything. This is no more something fulfilling for me. In some way, Sonia which first was seen to be a kitsch feminine side with mushy romanticism, a side of me always shut, helped me to recover a part of myself. To accept it as "acceptable".
I don't know if the noble feelings mention comes from my Christian background but high ideals are really, really important in this background.
And I would have difficulty to say if I'm more encline toward morality or humanity as you described both terms. Certain ideas of mine seem to have more connections with one and others with the other. So, I don't know exactly what has the preponderance. We see clearly the judgment/non judgment put on the plate with that. I have the feeling that I begin with someone by its humanity and it remains even if the morality enter the dance. In the daily life, we have responsibilities needing to trace a line between the acceptable and the non acceptable. Everywhere, in the street, at work, with your friends, with our families. And largely for our country, for the environment, for the world. But no matter the differences and the divergences, we speak of human beings. This nature must not be forgotten. Never.
I may not always understand what's going on in here, but it's not my business to make sense of it all, is it?
Not surprising that you don't understand. I used to really like the chaos it brought in me as if it obliges us to react differently. It brings me in new place of reflection. Destabilizing. I really adore the creativity it may bring. I find this part of the deal really great.
Why do you say it's not your business to make sense of it all? I don't know. In my opinion, it seems that as soon as one participate to an environment, it's his/her business just like everyone. What's your opinion?
Are you trying to make sense with your life? It seems it is what we are doing in life, isn't it?
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Post by Deleted on Feb 13, 2017 9:28:22 GMT -6
Too much chaos can bring on health problems.
#justsayin
Making sense of your own life will always be something that is sought. When you think you have an inclination, something else happens/comes up......life, enjoy the good and the bad. Trust that all will work out the way it's supposed to.
Therr are definitely times when it does while the chaos is in effect
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Post by Sunia on Feb 13, 2017 11:19:01 GMT -6
Always the balance in everything. Too much stability can become sclerosing. Lack of evolution, lack of freshness. It wasn't for nothing when I asked more "reality" in the deal. Remember? It was for the balance and it was what missed.
I'm really healthy focused as a person, it helped me.
I don't have the same opinion than you Ashima about the bad coming with the good. As if necessary. Probably this way of seeing explains your expression. Lately, when I was invited to express my tender inclination and I received a ton of bricks just after, I was surprised being not affected. It was just as usual for so many years. Just that, to feel nothing, was very sad in fact. Never able to just love. Just to give and receive love. No, necessarily we need shit with or a clown. And it's totally you.
It's even not an harsh thing that I say to you, it's the real thing. How can we develop something worthy? No surprise this relationship is stagnant for years. |
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Post by Deleted on Feb 13, 2017 11:50:01 GMT -6
I dont find what you just said harsh.
I think you are misunderstanding me though, but thats perfectly fine, it happens.
Overall im focused and healthy. What im saying is stress which can stem from chaos (we have different lives) can cause health problems.
Stability changes daily. Nothing is perfect not wven your balanced life.
Anyways, wish you well regardless of misunderstandings and miscommunications.
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gotta love yourself or you might be fucked
I had the feeling to be alive fighting for ideas, projects, everything. This is no more something fulfilling for me. In some way, Sonia which first was seen to be a kitsch feminine side with mushy romanticism, a side of me always shut, helped me to recover a part of myself. To accept it as "acceptable". 