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Post by Deleted on Feb 13, 2017 12:19:28 GMT -6
For you Sonia, Sunia
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Post by Sunia on Feb 14, 2017 7:10:56 GMT -6
I dont find what you just said harsh. I think you are misunderstanding me though, but thats perfectly fine, it happens. Overall im focused and healthy. What im saying is stress which can stem from chaos (we have different lives) can cause health problems. Stability changes daily. Nothing is perfect not wven your balanced life. Anyways, wish you well regardless of misunderstandings and miscommunications. I'm happy the way you're taking my comment. It's comforting. I mean I find comforting to be able saying directly what we think without explosion. I accept easily that misunderstandings and miscommunications exist between us. It's not only possible but also probable. And even maybe my inclination toward this chaos is a fundamental reason of them. It would be dishonest to make you responsible for my inclination even if you have contributed to it.
I have to say that no matter the possible intellectual interest coming from this I should (moral) have privileged the human being above all (heart is heart).
A balanced life doesn't mean perfection. What I could qualify of "bad" seem a lot less than the "good" in my life. So the balance that I speak of isn't of this kind. More in the spirit of how we deal with all that, the good and the bad. I like to think that the bad is in fact some good in disguise. Sometimes we don't see clearly the bad contributes to bring us in the place we wanted to be in the first place. So I try to take it with patience and to see what will come after. Yet patience must not be taken as an excuse to not take our happiness in our own responsibility.
Have a good day ashima.
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Post by Sunia on Feb 14, 2017 7:46:13 GMT -6
No one can protect my tender heart except myself. And, do I even want to protect it?
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Post by Deleted on Feb 14, 2017 10:15:55 GMT -6
Ive been through some bad moments. Never would want to go through them again. Lessons were taught & learned. Good with the bad, a part of growing in life.
No need for explosion. Nothing personal here. Save that for parenting when absolutely necessary (and yes sometimes it is necessary to vocally explode, it really depends on yhe situation)
Cant give everyone your heart, therefore you actually do protect it.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 14, 2017 11:15:21 GMT -6
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Post by Sunia on Feb 14, 2017 11:27:15 GMT -6
I admire the Pema Chodron's path yet I followed a totally different one. I guess we have to listen our heart. When we look behind we see how everything fit together as a beautiful dance. The music brings us to the dance.
Long time ago, I made an inspiring dream and few years after I was following its path. The innocence of a child. I was so rejecting what I saw as "semblance" in my life that I craved to open my heart totally in trust. Not that I had a clue that you were worthy of this confidence but you were as the receptacle of the beauty I wanted to see in human beings.
I prayed you to accept my open heart and to see who I am. "KNOW who I am." "Love me as I am."
Every day passing, this child , including her wounds, have less and less place in the whole grown woman who I am now. I know that opening my heart to you I was in fact giving this gift to me. And I thank you from the bottom of my heart to have allowed me to find me and to see me through your eyes. I truly hope it had a beneficial effect on yourself too.
What I did with you is the most incredible magnificent REAL thing I did in my whole life.
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Post by Blixa B. on Feb 14, 2017 16:01:42 GMT -6
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Post by Blixa B. on Feb 14, 2017 16:06:51 GMT -6
The star... our higher self.
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Post by Sunia on Feb 14, 2017 22:06:59 GMT -6
Ohh, a buzzy day.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 14, 2017 22:33:14 GMT -6
I admire the Pema Chodron's path yet I followed a totally different one. I guess we have to listen our heart. When we look behind we see how everything fit together as a beautiful dance. The music brings us to the dance.
Long time ago, I made an inspiring dream and few years after I was following its path. The innocence of a child. I was so rejecting what I saw as "semblance" in my life that I craved to open my heart totally in trust. Not that I had a clue that you were worthy of this confidence but you were as the receptacle of the beauty I wanted to see in human beings.
I prayed you to accept my open heart and to see who I am. "KNOW who I am." "Love me as I am."
Every day passing, this child , including her wounds, have less and less place in the whole grown woman who I am now. I know that opening my heart to you I was in fact giving this gift to me. And I thank you from the bottom of my heart to have allowed me to find me and to see me through your eyes. I truly hope it had a beneficial effect on yourself too.
What I did with you is the most incredible magnificent REAL thing I did in my whole life.
I will quote my friend "Huh?"
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Post by Deleted on Feb 14, 2017 22:33:42 GMT -6
Also......Perry Como. <3
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Post by Sunia on Feb 15, 2017 7:35:39 GMT -6
The star... our higher self. The star as the most important matter in our life not its inaccessible side. That's only for the myth... and their wealth.
Our higher self is there every day. Very close. And sometimes we can see consciously that we are going hand in hand, all the time.
My "God" is down to earth. What's attractive in something we can't reach? The helping hands come rarely of inaccessible ones, they are those ready to listen carefully what you have to say and ready to even put their hands in the mud sometimes.
Lately, we had a terrible attack against muslims in our country. A poet wrote a beautiful paper as he does so often. His advice? To give a smile. As an immigrant himself, he knew how much this simple gesture means opening and inclusiveness. To feel our importance as an unique one.
God is so accessible.
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Post by Sunia on Feb 15, 2017 9:42:58 GMT -6
An off for that.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 15, 2017 9:47:36 GMT -6
Yes, god is so accesible that people kill in the name of.....
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Post by Sunia on Feb 15, 2017 11:20:34 GMT -6
Pema Chodron underlines to cope our fears. Do not enough is one of mine. And from that being sorry to be not enough good. You know, strong, rigorous, smart, reliable and without forget to be funny. The fact is I put aside many of my obligations to be here more often. I see what I could do, what I would like even to do but I don't have the time for that. I can't give what I don't possess. And it's part of the sincerity/loyalty that I have with myself and with yourselves. There is part of will, but there is a part also of time, of availability.
I feel that I have no more place for fleeing. Just the facts and what we can do with these facts. If you care naturally.
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